STEPS
- Bring her into the room. This can be done in a number of ways, but the best and probably most effective would be ask her! Something along the lines of, "Hey wanna go upstairs? My room is warmer/nicer/more comfortable than here." If she seems against it, don't push it or you'll make her uncomfortable. (Which is bad.)
- Close the door, but not all the way. Most girls aren't very happy with being shut in a room by her boyfriend she hasn't even kissed yet, however, it might be bad if your parents or her parents come in while you guys are kissing.
- Remain standing until she sits on your bed. If you sit down and pull her down next to you, she might feel threatened or that things are moving too fast.
- When she sits, sit down next to her.
- Make eye contact with her. Girls like this. If you are still getting positive signals move to the next step. (The one you've been waiting for.)
- Touch her arm, and move in. If she says stop, then stop.
- Lean forward slowly and kiss her. Make sure you are gentle. Don't stick out your lips but gently press them against hers. If she doesn't kiss you back, she may just be surprised.
- Keep your eyes closed while still kissing her.
- If you feel it's the right time, you can move on to the French Kiss, but only if both you, and the girl, are ready. If this is your first kiss altogether, not just the first in your room, disregard this step.
- Once the kiss is over it could be cute to give her a small kiss on the cheek or a hug to end the kiss sweetly. (This, however, would not be so cute if the kiss ended in her pushing you away. Keep such things in mind when following these steps.)
- If she doesn't want the kiss to end gently put both your hands on her waist or softly place your hand on one side of her face. If she responds well to this keep going. If she starts to lean away, open her eyes or closes her mouth then discontinue with this step.
TIPS
- Do everything slowly and gently and don't close your eyes until the last moment.
- If you don't or she doesn't want to do anything else, just lying on the bed and cuddling is fun too! (Girls often like this and will appreciate if for once it is all a guy wants to do.)
- Don't be shy or nervous, otherwise she will get nervous too! You don't want that. Let things glide naturally.
- After the kiss, it's nice to look her in the eyes and tell her you love her!
WARNINGS
- Some girls may take this the wrong way! You will know if she does. If she won't want to make eye contact, doesn't sit with you, doesn't say much, has her lips clamped together, or some similar sign, she isn't comfortable being on the bed with you right then. If this happens, you should either talk to her; tell her you don't mean to make her feel like that, ask what you can do to make her more comfortable, etc. or just go back to what ever you were doing before.
- If you're nervous or shy, girls will get hesitant, and back out. Not good!
- Never rush things.
- Kissing is one step, don't try to do anything more for now.
- Make sure you don't still have a mint or gum in your mouth when you kiss!
- By KRUNAL VAGHELA
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